Marriage Assessments

TAKE THE LANE STOKES MARRIAGE ASSESSMENTS

These 12 modules represent the perfect marriage

Rate your relationship/marriage honestly from 1 to 10, 10 being the most true

A daily expression of love in action 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Come home to someone always happy to see you 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

A growing intimacy 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Passionate Sex 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Good communication with few arguments 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

I always feel heard 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

 Expressions of appreciation for who the other is 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

  Expressions of acknowledgment for what other does 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Peace that pervades home and work 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Unselfish meeting of one another’s needs 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

We talk trough every issue to conclusion or compromise daily 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Absolute trust in fidelity of the other 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

1. Do you verbally express appreciation daily for who the other is or what the other does?
2. Do you listen to every word the other says? Could you repeat them verbatim if asked?
3. Do you understand the meaning of each phrase spoken, including the hidden meanings?
4. Can you define the exact emotion you feel at any moment? Exact emotion of the other?
5. Do you enjoy passionate sex together at least three times a week?
6. Do you risk talking about subjects that make you uncomfortable at least once a week?
7. Can you identify causes for subjects you fight about over and over without resolution?
8. Can you talk through issues to completion or compromise the same day they come up?