Do You Love Your Job?

Do You Love Your Job? The research project I have started on humiliation may help you understand your job better. Do you feel stuck? Are you doing what you love or what you have to do to pay bills? We all have emotions and those emotions determine how we feel, what we...

Humiliation: Fact or Fantasy?

Humiliation: Fact or Fantasy Two years ago I wrote an article stating that when a person uses case studies of humiliation for sexual fantasy, the emotions during imagination affect the person the same as they did  the person in the case study. Several disagreed,...

What is Controlling You Now?

What is Controlling You Now? What is it about humans that resists accepting help for challenges? When we play football or even doubles tennis, we depend on the assistance from others. Pianists lean on their teachers for help in playing the way the music was written to...

Emotional Control Beyond Psychological

Emotional Control Beyond Psychological Up until this point I have been talking about the psychological effects of our emotions in controlling how we feel, think, talk and act. Do you know that our emotions also control us by chemical reactions? So, when you feel that...

How Do Others Perceive You?

How Do Others Perceive You? What emotion do you feel right now? Why does that matter? Your emotion determines how you feel, act, think and communicate with others. Let’s say your present emotion is anger. If an adult or child is present, each will perceive your...