Falling Back in Love

FALLING BACK IN LOVE Do you remember how easy it was to fall in love? When those mating hormones took control of your body and mind you had no choice but to feel loved, appreciated and heard. Then after the hormones began losing their effect in six months or so,...

Counselor Helpful Yet a Problem

  Today this article Counselor Helpful Yet a Problem  speaks to the last article Counseling More Problem Than Solution. Then I reported discovering an issue with counseling itself. The truth is that people in trouble will wait years before contacting a...

When Counseling More Problem than Solution

When Counseling More Problem Than Solution Imagine my dismay one day in January 2022 when I realized that Counseling was more the problem than the solution. I had been working several days on summarizing the sessions of a couple when it came to me that the counseling...

Passing Art of Conversation

The Passing of the Art of Conversation When was the last time you started a conversation with a stranger? Who does that anyhow? Salespersons once made their livings from cold calling strangers on the phone. Then they used emails until people got sick of those. I still...

Covid’s Lost Opportunities

Covid’s Lost Opportunities As Covid is drawing to an end—we hope—it is sad to look back at all the opportunities it provided that we missed. One would think when nobody could leave the house that families would have grown closer. Not the case. We are social...