Me Me Me Not Love

Me Me Me is not love. You you us us is. Infants and young children survive because older children and adults give them what they need. Growing up and adulthood is taking care of those younger. Love is taking care of the other before oneself. Couples in trouble come to...

Loveless Marriage Common

Loveless Marriage Common Loveless marriages are all too common. Boy meets girl or man meets woman. Each feels a special attraction to the other. Mating chemicals take over. Both are caught up in a whirlwind of lust they call love. The chemicals lose effectiveness in...

How Are You Criticized?

Here is another example of a little thing we do to hinder communication. We generally have a particular way in which we call attention to each other’s faults. Can you recognize yours as well as those who may be criticizing you? This is a good question for all...

Is He Gaslighting You?

I told you that I would be giving examples of the little things we do that hinder communication. Gaslighting is one. This is actually a form of abuse in which the abuser seeks to control the other by causing the victim to question their own judgment and intuition. Men...