by lanes | Dec 19, 2021 | Uncategorized
Emotional Control Beyond Psychological Up until this point I have been talking about the psychological effects of our emotions in controlling how we feel, think, talk and act. Do you know that our emotions also control us by chemical reactions? So, when you feel that...
by lanes | Dec 12, 2021 | Uncategorized
How Do Others Perceive You? What emotion do you feel right now? Why does that matter? Your emotion determines how you feel, act, think and communicate with others. Let’s say your present emotion is anger. If an adult or child is present, each will perceive your...
by lanes | Dec 12, 2021 | Uncategorized
Have you ever wondered where your thoughts come from or why you act as you do? It is not unusual for one of your emotions such as sadness or anger to generate 50 to 90 thoughts or calls to action without your awareness. Don’t you want to know what is controlling...
by lanes | Nov 27, 2021 | Uncategorized
What Do You Feel Right Now? What do you think is your predominant emotion? Most people will say they are usually positive and happy. What I have found over the past 30+ years as a counselor is that a lot of those who claim to feel happy actually feel hopeless. How...
by lanes | Nov 27, 2021 | Uncategorized
What do you want? Have you heard the saying: “Everything you want lies on the other side of fear?” It is not true. Maybe 1% of what holds you back is fear, but once you learn what really stops you, fear will fade with new confidence. Let me show you how...
by lanes | Nov 21, 2021 | Uncategorized
Do You Fear Confrontation? If you fear confrontation you are in big trouble. Usually those who fear it also fear self-assertion and never know who they are or share that wealth with others. Confrontation normally causes one to wither in the presence of one demanding...
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