Is Extra-Texting a Problem?

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Is Extra-Texting a Problem?

Is it a problem for you that the one you love texts others without telling you? Have you discovered this knowledge by looking at his or her phone? Should you be disturbed? Is this texting a form of adultery or infidelity? If you question the other about this extra-texting, what is the response? As a counselor, I’ve heard all the reasons or excuses and they are never good enough to justify the loss of trust in that relationship.

Trust is not just the main issue for marriage. Trust is the main issue for friendships or any kind of relationship. Finding that the person you love is texting others is a major break with trust. You must take it seriously if your relationship is to survive?

If you are like most individuals, you feel cheated when he or she texts others scecretly? What’s that feeling all about? Individuals who spend a session or two with me talking about their feelings usually learn valuable facts about the self. Sometimes they uncover larger issues that they want to explore further. The more you learn about yourself, the stronger you become. I invite you to call me at 404-487-1956 and leave a message and phone number for me to reach you. We could set up an appointment or two and learn exactly what bothers you about the one you love secretly texting others. We may even set a time for you to hear from the other just what his or her reasons are for texting others without telling you. Read more about me at

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