Best Yet “Marriage Counseling”
The use of Unique Qualities to resolve marriage issues is proving that traditional marriage counseling is not needed. “Marriage Counseling” denotes “problems”. It is perceived as a negative stigma. Nobody wants to admit that they need it because that is a confession of weakness. Unique Qualities is a description of the personality characteristics and those are always considered strengths. The strengths may clash if both do not accept and appreciate the unique differences of the other. It is not that the characteristics are problematic in themselves. For example, both the husband and wife may be well organized. That means that they both have a positive characteristic. The husband may use his organization skills to create neatness on the first day of the month. His wife uses hers to keep the house clean all during the month. She could become unhappy that he does not pitch in the rest of the month to help keep the house clean. This difference may be perceived as a “problem” or “issue” but it is really that each does not appreciate the others unique characteristic. Treat the difference as a problem and there could be unhappiness and argument. Treat the difference as simply the way that individual is with appreciation and the marriage is made stronger.
Unique Qualities is the most current of the methods of marriage counseling that I have discovered or developed. It is my first choice for resolving marriage difficulties when a couple calls me for marriage counseling. But, if I could use it for couples before their Unique Qualities of personality have been allowed to snarl, it would be the perfect form of marriage enrichment. It could be the best preventive measure of marriage problems. It would be the best preparation for marriage as in Premarital Counseling.
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